Many times I ask my friends to take part in any events along with me... I use to think they would be longing to be a part in such events... Which I suggest based on their Individual interests that I got to observe on my best... Unfortunately they deny the suggestion often... I give them a strange look and let it go...
Now I want to analyse the reason for their denial and their state of mind which doesn't let them be a part of these events...
The reasons they use to put forward when I question them are 1) Parents won't permit, 2) Can't travel so long, 3) Have to be back home on time, 4) Got some other work(which doesn't seem plausible in my view), 5) What am I going to do participating in that? 6) I don't think it will be useful for me, 6) I will try to be a part next time, 7) I don't think it's a good idea, 8) I got suspicions on the event management and I don't think I need to participate in that event to prove myself and the list goes on... The most funny ones are those when they ask me "Why you are taking part in that?"...
These might be feasible reasons to convince me, but I don't think they actually got issues in accepting the suggestion... Don't think am pointing at their own decisions and making comments on others self right to live there life and do things... Am just putting my friends as an example for this kind of people... Its not only case of some people around me... Most people in today's life style have attitude of 'Live-at-safer-side-as-others-do'...
They are finding reason from a nook of the buried world and throwing them as the reason for there disability... Here by saying 'disability', I didn't mean they are unable to take part... They are unable to have a mind that keeps them ready to take part... This is Human's psych... If a person gets into an awful situation or a kind of situation where they need to put their efforts to accomplish that thing, they simply get satisfied by dragging something inevitable(which they think so) and use to stand apart from that situation...
I think this is where people should practice the saying "Stop, Think and Go"... All of us need to come over this problem of finding reasons so that we can step into the next stage... They are also the important moments in one's life,for the fact that our activities define our characters... One can be portrayed as a hard working person only after he/she works hard... They just cannot start working hard only because their character was said to be a hard working type... A thief is not a thief before he steals for the first time... A sculpture is just a stone before it gets carved by an artist...A canvas is just a white paper before some one intend to make it a colourful art... Like wise one cannot become what they want to become before they are ready to commit themselves to do the things which eventually make them what they want... Every denial is the missing of great opportunity...
Each and every thing we do in our life time definitely will have impact on our lives itself... Remember that, missing an opportunity is also one of that 'Each and every things'...
I view life as a maze game... There is a reason for this... In a maze game, we never know what behind each and every walls and every turns inside the Maze... Life also doesn't reveal anything unless you move forward... And one cliche point is that, our life starts at the centre of the maze... Whether or not you want to play it, you are already inside the game... There are two choices you can go for... One is you can reside inside a place and get satisfied for playing well the maze-game... Obviously no one knows in which piece of the game you are at and you also can't know at which piece of the maze others are at... Unless you start exploring the place... I can't say that you can get nurtured by the experiences, but I can assure that more you explore life, more you come to know you hadn't known many things... Which in turn can urge you to explore more...
Finally, I have never heard of some one saying their missed chances in their first life, making use of them in their second life or the life after which they are living now... As far as we know, we got only one life to dwell inside, make impact, go long and jump out of the sky if you wish... So make the living best... Never get stagnated at a single thing... Take a ride, get to the top of a cliff and say to the world "I am here to live my life to the fullest... So there are no more excuses and no more reconsiderations..." Take part in everything... Be a part of every smiles around you...
Now I want to analyse the reason for their denial and their state of mind which doesn't let them be a part of these events...
The reasons they use to put forward when I question them are 1) Parents won't permit, 2) Can't travel so long, 3) Have to be back home on time, 4) Got some other work(which doesn't seem plausible in my view), 5) What am I going to do participating in that? 6) I don't think it will be useful for me, 6) I will try to be a part next time, 7) I don't think it's a good idea, 8) I got suspicions on the event management and I don't think I need to participate in that event to prove myself and the list goes on... The most funny ones are those when they ask me "Why you are taking part in that?"...
These might be feasible reasons to convince me, but I don't think they actually got issues in accepting the suggestion... Don't think am pointing at their own decisions and making comments on others self right to live there life and do things... Am just putting my friends as an example for this kind of people... Its not only case of some people around me... Most people in today's life style have attitude of 'Live-at-safer-side-as-others-do'...
I think this is where people should practice the saying "Stop, Think and Go"... All of us need to come over this problem of finding reasons so that we can step into the next stage... They are also the important moments in one's life,for the fact that our activities define our characters... One can be portrayed as a hard working person only after he/she works hard... They just cannot start working hard only because their character was said to be a hard working type... A thief is not a thief before he steals for the first time... A sculpture is just a stone before it gets carved by an artist...A canvas is just a white paper before some one intend to make it a colourful art... Like wise one cannot become what they want to become before they are ready to commit themselves to do the things which eventually make them what they want... Every denial is the missing of great opportunity...
- What if Sachin had denied his first attempt to stand in the field?
- What if Wright Brothers had got satisfied by their ability to jump against the gravity using their legs?
- What if Steve Jobs had decided not to visit the manufacturing industries around his town which he might have thought as useless ones?
- What if Einstien hadn't asked himself 'What if we travel in light speed?'... Of course "Relativity theory" wouldn't had born...
- What if , what if... there are lots of 'What ifs' for which the answers had made great histories...
Each and every thing we do in our life time definitely will have impact on our lives itself... Remember that, missing an opportunity is also one of that 'Each and every things'...
I view life as a maze game... There is a reason for this... In a maze game, we never know what behind each and every walls and every turns inside the Maze... Life also doesn't reveal anything unless you move forward... And one cliche point is that, our life starts at the centre of the maze... Whether or not you want to play it, you are already inside the game... There are two choices you can go for... One is you can reside inside a place and get satisfied for playing well the maze-game... Obviously no one knows in which piece of the game you are at and you also can't know at which piece of the maze others are at... Unless you start exploring the place... I can't say that you can get nurtured by the experiences, but I can assure that more you explore life, more you come to know you hadn't known many things... Which in turn can urge you to explore more...
Finally, I have never heard of some one saying their missed chances in their first life, making use of them in their second life or the life after which they are living now... As far as we know, we got only one life to dwell inside, make impact, go long and jump out of the sky if you wish... So make the living best... Never get stagnated at a single thing... Take a ride, get to the top of a cliff and say to the world "I am here to live my life to the fullest... So there are no more excuses and no more reconsiderations..." Take part in everything... Be a part of every smiles around you...
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