Showing posts with label Determination. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Determination. Show all posts

Monday, October 27, 2014

My Learning Theory!!!


                       It is always amazing to learn something and do what we learnt and again learn from what we did and do what we learnt from past experience. Life without learning is like an amusement park without a Roller Coaster. Learning will complete the purpose of our life. Every living beings use to learn different things by different ways. One’s learning strategy may not help other. Let me share some of my thoughts and experiences on how I learnt few skills in my life.
 Here I am not intended to let the readers understand the fact that “Determination and Desire can help us achieve any thing.” Instead I want to convey some information by which they can hold their determination strongly and live their life with desire. Learning doesn’t get accomplished only by gaining knowledge. It gets fulfilled only if we apply what we learnt.

No matter what Barriers stand in your way, Never lose sight of your goal.
-Mark Wilson.
                
                   I want to pin out an Interesting story taken from Mahabaratham,
One of the Great epics of Ancient India.   
             Once there were Five Brothers. Five Great Legends who ruled all over India those days. During their Teenage days they have been trained for Archery Skill which would be useful during the war. Arjunan was one of the five brothers and he is well known for Archery skill in his later days. Dhronachariya was the teacher for Archery Classes and he too was an Archery expert.
One day During the training Dhronachariya asked one of his students to aim an eye of a bird which were sitting at the branch of a tree.  That student took his bow and arrow and aimed at one of the eyes of that Bird. Now Dhrona asked
What you see?
Student replied “I see a tree, a branch in that tree, leaves in that Branch, a bird sitting in that Branch  and  its eyes.”  
Dhrona smiled and asked Arjunan to aim an eye of that bird.
Now Dhrona asked Arjunan
What you see?
Arjunan replied “I see an eye of a Bird.”
Dhrona  tapped Arjunan’s back and praised him for his attitude.

May be Arjunan’s desire towards his learning process had lead a path for him, becoming a Great archer.  



        When I was around 15 years old, I got drastic interest towards Shaping up my  body and wanted to achieve masculine structure. Once I started running towards my desire to achieve well built body, first problem I faced was my studies. Besides I have had to accept the pain. Working out is not an easy task though at the age of 15. Some other problems also I faced which made me feel like “Why the hell I need to do this?”, “What I am going to get by running behind this desire crazily?”. But  What drives me to continue running towards my desire and what make me feel determined is the pride which I would feel after I accomplish the goal.  That is the only reason that pushed me to achieve things.

As the quote says, when someone is determined about something, only way to keep up their determination is to cut all the craps that stands in their way and focus on the goal. The Goal which they want to accomplish. The Goal which they were determined about. The Goal which brings real Happiness in themselves. 



Don’t wait for your Ship to come in,Swim out to it.
                                                                   -Cathy Hopkins.  

Two Boat Men
Before we get started let me tell you short story. Precisely, shorter than short.
             There were 2 Boat men getting ready to go into the sea for Fishing. They both had known that Cyclone would be coming soon. Despite they went on and got stuck at the middle of the sea and the GPS which they brought to communicate doesn’t have signal and so they were not able to contact the coast guards...They both realised that sooner or later, Due to the effect of the cyclone their boat is going to get upside down...  

Now they have only  2 choices… Either Jump into the sea and swim unless they find a Shore(Though both the Boatmen knows that the waves will further take them deep into the sea)…  or wait for any other ship to come  for Help. Second choice may not  guaranty their lives because the boat was small and they were prone to death . One Boat man decided to stay in the boat unless he gets any help while other  decided to jump  into the sea , swim and  find the Shore. There may be 2 results based on the decisions.  Either Boat man who decided to swim and save himself will become safer soon than  the one who decided to stay…  Or Both will die…

                  If people have an attitude like “I got talent, I am waiting for an Opportunity to prove myself” or “I don’t know whether I have talent or not, I need an Opportunity to Understand myself”, then I would say they are Hitting on the iron, which is of no use. There is nothing like Opportunities that will knock your door and say “Come on, use me”. They are meant to be created by our self. If we miss this opportunity, we can avail another opportunity, another one, again one. Opportunities are available unless we stop trying to find it.   

         A simple dating technique will apply for the life. If we wait for our crush to come to us and ask for a date, then He/ She may get busy with any other. May be Funny , but it’s the fact.    

         


Always Desire to learn something useful
                                                          -Sophecles
               I divide people’s life into 2 general category. One is who live their life learning something new every day and enjoying it. Another one is enjoying the life without learning anything new. 
 
       Life Without learning anything new is like a digging a coal mine continuously in a place where there is no need of electricity or any other uses of coal… Life would be incomplete and unreasonable than…
        Learn something and enjoy from what we have learnt or enjoy the life and let us learn something from what we have enjoyed…    
           
           

A Creative man is motivated by Desire to Achieve.
                                                                                    -Ayn Rand
               When I say Creative man, I didn’t mean person who have lots of creativity in mind. It is for people who have got the desire to achieve something in life. They don’t need to be Creators. Today’s desires will be tomorrow’s creations. Primary need to achieve great heights or develop any skills is to have a strong desire and sticking tight to the desire at any cost. A Creative mind can only be motivated by Desire to achieve things in life, not by the desire to win others.
                       
            In 2012 when I started writing, I was nothing. I was not even able to write a single paragraph  that is worth reading. I got no talents. Don’t know anything about writing. Only thing I had is desire to achieve. I am not trying to point that I am creative. But the desire that I got that day had helped me improve my skills.  Helped  me to learn many things about writing.  Droved me to read many books and Refine myself. When I wrote my 1st Poem it was awful. I myself could not read it. When I started my first short story , I got dumb stuck at 1st line. I didn’t know how to start? , Where to start?, What to write? Etc. Desire is the only thing that has been with me for these days and it was the reason I started enrolling in Online Courses and it is the reason for development of  my so called “Writing Skill” by which I am able to write an essay today.



                 As writers we have many things to grab from outside and accomplish our desires. As a person we have many things to learn which can help us accomplish our goals towards our life. Only thing which differs is the way of Learning. We all are writers already, by some reason. Only thing which signifies one writer from other is the way of learning. Every one of us has unique stories… Either do something that worth writing or write something that worth reading…
 
“World need no more proverbs. It needs guidelines that help us follow the existing ones.” 
 -Maha
                                                                                                                                   


Saturday, October 11, 2014

A Self-Definable Life!!!

                                 And!!!! Here goes a post about the most discussed , most accepted and at the mean time most ignored topic of Centuries...  Yes ,Life it is...

                                   People who talk, write or advice about Life things usually use  "I-experienced-it-so-I-knew-it"  kinda tone... May be that's the reason most people who hear the LIFE conversations doesn't give a damn about it...  And in no way am going to use that tone now...  Let us have some cool and interesting facts about LIFE that I feel like sharing...

                                   I don't feel like giving you points to overcome fear, miseries, depression, lack of confidence etc in your lives... Because it has been long said that each and every one of us have our own problems in life...  A life without issues is like rose without thorns... There are many kinda flowers that is as colourful as Rose... As beautiful as Rose... Possess as good smell as Rose possesses... But the thorns on it's stem signifies it...Without problems life is not interesting and significant...

                                     Each and everyone of our lives are SELF-DEFINABLE... A writer me defines my life in my way of doing things, experiencing moments, having relationship with person to whom am talking or hanging around with... Like wise you might be a student, a scholar with any degree,be at any profession say for a professor,a doctor, an engineer or whatever... The way you define your life things is how it is going to work out ...

                         
                          For example again me being a writer,a reader etc , I love to sit under a tree all filled with small green leaves and colourful flowers(Yellow Flower in precise), in a place full of grass that extends unto my eye's view point in the late evening... Seeing that tree's leaves waving and blowing a thin breeze that touches my face when I was deep down into reading my favourite book  and immerse into thoughts of my fantasy world... I love the companion ship of the cuckoo bird... The environment would be filled with silence except the Cuckoo sound... That make me feel like am hearing a  symphony at best ever place and best ever environment in the world...  This kinda experience will help me refine my thoughts and improve my skill of  lively writing...   

                            My way of defining my happiness will of course be different from your's and others too...  Some one hates sitting in the grass... Some may get frustrated being alone... A psychologist may wants to be with people to observe them...  An engineer might have the attraction towards the amazing innovations around them... I mention Engineers and Doctors not to mean the job and salary associated with them... But the way of life for ,which most of them would like to get around...

                                Now being accepted that we all have separate dreams, hopes, different paths in life,  it make much sense if we don't compare our bad times with some one else's good times... The point now is to define a life for ourselves...

I feel the urge to clarify two things here...

1) There are possibilities that readers may understand the meaning of "SELF-DEFINED LIFE" as some kind of selfishness oriented one... That's not the case... I'll explain "How it is not" later...

2) A question that will probably arise in all of our mind is "Is it possible to define our own lives? Will it be reasonable? "

Here is the answer for both the issues...
                                      A self-defined life doesn't mean living a life without considering people around us... It means a life defined by us to live independent  of others... It means a life defined by us that gives us an Identity... A life defined by us that gives us the right to do things that we like... A life defined by us that makes us reasonable and wise.

        "Either write something that worth reading or
           Do  something that worth Writing...."
                                                                  -Benjamin Franklin  

                                 Human lives are obviously self-definable...  A cat's life is a good example for this... We once use to feed a cat which is white colour with black spots in our home which was wandering around our house often... As days passed the cat become more familiar and lovable to our family members... It knows the timing of our breakfast, lunch and dinner... It knows the sleeping time and wake up time of everyone in our house... It come inside the house after all had slept and leave the house before we wake up... Some days the Cat's "miaouv" sound is our wake  up alarm... 

Once the Cat yielded 3 kittens... As far as the safety is concerned, the cat itself brought those kittens inside our house and kept them at our store room's shelf where old stuff had been kept and we hardly clean that shelf (that too was known by this creaky freaky Cat)...  Even though we fed the cat for long time and even though it does have some sense that we will not harm those kittens, if any one get near the shelf to see the kittens it use start screaming at us in cat's language... It had never let us get near the kittens unless they grow up little bit... But after some 15 to 20 days we use to play with those cute and active kittens which was really a fun... You won't believe those... Those kittens play hide and seek among themselves , one hiding behind our dining table leg and other jump at it and find it... That mom cat didn't screamed any more... 

                                    The reason why am sharing this is that , whatever the hospitality we gave that cat, though it knows we fed it when it was hungry, even after we made it one of our family members, 
when it came to the safety of it's kittens, nothing worked out...  You can say it don't have common sense... But if it is so, it should have neither intended to protect it's kittens...

               Like the same, we humans can define our own lives in the way that nothing can stand in front of our Dreams, Hopes and Determination towards our lives... So yes, our "LIFE IS SELF DEFINABLE..."



Now, How can we define our LIFE as we like? 
                                 Remember one thing... The life we living now is the only life where we can be ourselves...  Life is meant to be lived... Living means not surviving... One sad thing that we all should accept is that, most of the people take Survival facts as the necessary thing to accomplish in life... We often hear most of our parents telling us to get a good job, build our own house, buy a car for our own, Protect their name in this society... It is so implausible to let our life get defined by the society... A society will criticise everything and everyone in the world... If someone decides to change their desires and dreams for the society and family, then that person can never achieve what he/she want to achieve...  
                               
                                  Set things upright... Never give up at anything you attended... Never lose hope on something you intended to do... Dream Big... Never change your dreams for others... Do things that help you refine your mind... Involve in activities that bring you out of the box and gives you an unique identity... Create an environment that will help you to accomplish your wish...
A SWAN use to sleep resting it's head on it's feathers while flying ,if the destination is too long... It don't use to get down and take rest...  So never rest unless you reach your destination... 
                                     
                                      "Go and fly... While the heat is high... Until you reach the sky... Never Give up unless you die..."               
                                         
I defined mine... Define your's...                
                                                                                                                                           -Maha