Our messed up minds!!!

                 
                         Let me start this pointing out one of the well known sayings,

                                         - A Pen is mightier than a Sword... 

I could see a major misunderstanding factor when people read this... The word 'Pen' in the proverb doesn't mean any sort of literature or great epic... It doesn't mean a writer's words are mightier than a Sword... It doesn't mean that only words can help Humans come over the violence... 

The word 'Pen' mean each and every Human minds... The impact that a human mind can create over this world has more power to lead than a impact that can be created by war and violence... Our human minds are the most wonderful creations of nature and also the most mysterious creations that world has ever seen before... The power of human mind can ____... 

Wait a second...  

Oh my god... 

I forgot something...  

How on this earth could a freak like me forget this important thing? 

I wonder how it could even happen... 

How messed up my mind could be to forget that I am in 20th century where all of our minds are so so messy , absurd...? 

Seems funny right? 

No it's not... For a matter of fact, that proverb no more suits for the people of this generation... That too most of the young people of today's world are victims of lacking the eligibility for deserving this proverb...  These days most of us either don't want to point out bitter things or accept them... This factor though seems bitter, we have to accept them... Our minds are no longer mightier than sword... 

There may be many contradictions to this theory like, people of today's world are getting exposed to  most of the things... Knowledge gaining had found much more ways to reach the people that we couldn't  even imagine... Internet world has changed millions of people's lives and helped them to come over their miseries...  Those points are quite true...  I am also fond of Internet's uses... But still this there are demerits that has to be considered... 

The messed up state of our minds are not only caused due to the over dose of internet, many more factors... Internet is one of the factors...    

           So now, you may be frustrated and become unbearable on reading the dragging kind of this post which doesn't come to the point directly... And that's what I called messed up mind... 

           The frustration,unbearable attitude,lack of attention  on reading some useful stuff for life that is going to consume your time of checking the facebook status responses, refreshing the page continuously for new tweets, checking the mail once in 10 minutes even after knowing there's nothing going to be important and stuff like these... 

            

            If you feel like taking something and throw at my face or come to my house straight and put something on my head or beat me to the hell for posting such things, then please continue reading for a while,because this post is absolutely dedicated for you and your messed up mind and also for those who wants to know more about the status of danger we all are facing...    

               

           None of the theories will be accepted by us, unless it is proven to be real or at least if we see some example of that... Lemme go by the classic way of proving my idea , using an example... 

           "Recently I was chatting with a friend of mine... I asked how was her day and she started narrating what happened that day... It was heavily raining and she is not sure whether college is holiday or not, she was getting ready for the college in confusion(may be expecting a holiday,besides who wants to go for college getting wet?)...Only after she reaching the bus stop she came to know that she missed the college bus... Oops... She decided to get to the college by public transport and got the next bus... After getting into the bus,she find it hard to stabilize her because she was having umbrella in one hand and bag on other, she got no place to sit as all seats are wet...  She kind of  got  tensed and wanted to relax...  She pretend to be patient and asked the conductor for the stop she needs to get down... When she tried to reached her handbag to pay the fair amount she got a mini heart attack... She forgot to bring her purse... She had took her purse out the night before and forgot to keep it inside the bag... After giving a sarcastic look to the conductor, she explained what happened and got down at next stop... She was trying to communicate everyone through the mobile who might possibly come and help her... Unfortunately as it was raining and the signal on her mobile was too weak, every effort she took to get any kind of help went in vain... Oh my god... She missed the college bus... She didn't brought purse... She couldn't ask for help... It was raining heavily and if she wants to get back to home,she have to go by walk which was not preferable in that rain... In total mess she was standing at the stop next to her own stop... Fortunately another college bus came through the same route... She gave a big sigh of relief and got that bus... As the very morning of the day become frustrated, the upcoming things piled up the same way... And she had a not-so-called good day..." 

                       Most of you might be thinking, 

Why on the earth some one would forgot to take the purse.?,

Why she made it late even after knowing the bus won't wait too long?,

Once she knew it was raining, why she didn't made sure that, in no case she would miss the bus? 

Why she didn't keep a spare amount in her bag which might be helpful in these kind of situations? 

                 But it is not how we should analyse this... Instead of asking 'why', let us ask 'how'... 

How she forgot to take the purse? 

That's because she forgot to keep it back the night before... ,

How she forgot to keep it back the night before...? 

That may be because  she should have been in messed up mind or out of attention by which she failed to think about the morning schedule...

            This is not only the case of my friend... Most of the people in their daily life facing such situations and  wondering how... 

             The major reason is that our minds are messed up...   Are you interested in knowing how much messed up your mind is? Who doesn't want to?   Close the room doors, shut all kind of sounds around you..Sit straight and close your eyes for a five minutes and try to relax your mind... Try to concentrate on some particular thing of your interest... I request you to continue  reading this after doing so...My post will be waiting for you... 

              I did not asked you to meditate... I wanted you to observe the communication between your heart and mind... And you did it with ease...

Wait... 

Did you? Did you found it easy to concentrate?

If yes then it's great and  please make sure you don't get contaminated with messy mind... 

And my dear ones whose answers are 'No I couldn't able to concentrate even 5 mins...', it is necessary to consider it... 

             You closed your eyes for 5 minutes... In those 5 mins, every thoughts that came in front of you defines or evaluates how much you are messed up in today's world... 

             The very thoughts of saving the money for family, buying some necessary stuff for house that might be difficult for you to handle, yelling at your boss or Head of the department for not treating you as you expected them to be, family issues, day to day schedules, inability, distress, failures, hardship faced by you, relationship issues, improper recognition of your works, talents, college pressure, office pressure, unemployment problems , disrespect , shattering of dreams, machine life's problems,trying hard to find a solution for some problems etc etc... Everything shows the attributes of the messy world that cause messy things to make our minds messy which compelled me to put a post on messed up minds in the tone of same messy mind because of which I pretend like forgetting that we are in 21st century at first... 

             Human minds are not meant to be messed up... See yourself in the mirror and act the way you act in stressful situations, 'Oh my god I forgot to check the mail', 'Oops, I forgot to pay the bill', 'Oh god, I forgot the purse', 'I feel guilty for my action', 'I am the reason for this issue', 'I messed up the relation ship', 'I shouldn't have did that' , 'I should have considered this, that', whoa whoa...  does it look good? 

  

Consequences  

                You may ask ,'What it is going to take if the mind is tensed for single day?', it is going to increase my salary, going to protect my progress, going to bring me good marks bla bla stuff... 

But the consequences of stressful mind not only affect your routine for that single day... 

A messed up mind cause sleeplessness... And many researches have proved that sleeplessness is the major cause of cancer... It cause cancer in many ways and affect metabolic functioning of our body...

       

                   If you need more details please check the below link: 

Side effects of Sleep Deprivation

 First step  

                Understanding the problem is the first step you have to do, (learnt from 6th standard mathematics)... Do understand the problems of your mind... Take time to relax your mind everyday and know how much your mind got messed up that day... Start by 5 mins initially and increase it day by day... Once you start following it, you are ready to find the inverse theory to clear the messed up mind and you can find your own way of living the life happily... Each of us has unique stories to tell...  

Inverse theory

                  Most of the theories have inverse theories to stabilize them... This messed-up-mind theory also have inverse theory... Don't get messed up... Mess up the messing up things... Your health is important  than anything in the world... 

                               A pen is of course mightier than a Sword, but today's pens are need to be diagnosed psychologically by ourselves... If we overcome this problem, than we are the most influential species of the world that had seen so far...