Take part!!!

                 Many times I ask my friends to take part in any events along with me... I use to think they would be longing to be a part in such events... Which I suggest based on their Individual interests that I got to observe on my best... Unfortunately they deny the suggestion often... I give them a strange look and let it go...

                 Now I want to analyse the reason for their denial and their state of mind which doesn't  let them be a part of these events...
             
                 The reasons they use to put forward when I question them are 1) Parents won't permit, 2) Can't travel so long, 3) Have to be back home on time, 4) Got some other work(which doesn't seem plausible in my view), 5) What am I going to do participating in that? 6) I don't think it will be useful for me, 6) I will try to be a part next time, 7) I don't think it's a good idea, 8) I got suspicions on the event management and I don't think I need to participate in that event to prove myself and the list goes on... The most funny ones are those when they ask me "Why you are taking part in that?"...

               These might be feasible reasons to convince me, but I don't think they actually got issues in accepting the suggestion... Don't think am pointing at their own decisions and making comments on others self right to live there life and do things... Am just putting my friends as an example for this kind of people... Its not only case of some people around me... Most people in today's life style have attitude of 'Live-at-safer-side-as-others-do'...

               They are finding reason from a nook of the buried world and throwing them as the reason for there disability... Here by saying 'disability', I didn't mean they are  unable to take part... They are unable to have a mind that keeps them ready to take part... This is Human's psych... If a person gets into an awful situation or a kind of situation where they need to put their efforts to accomplish that thing, they simply get satisfied by dragging something inevitable(which they think so) and use to stand apart from that  situation...

                 I think this is where people should practice the saying "Stop, Think and Go"... All of us need to come over this problem of finding reasons so that we can step into the next stage... They are also the important moments in one's life,for the fact that our activities define our characters... One can be portrayed as a hard working person only after he/she works hard... They just cannot start working hard only because their character was said to be a hard working type... A thief is not a thief before he steals for the first time... A sculpture is just a stone before it gets carved by an artist...A canvas is just a white paper before some one intend to make it a colourful art... Like wise one cannot become what they want to become before they are ready to commit themselves to do the things which eventually make them what they want... Every denial is the missing of great opportunity...

• What if Sachin had denied his first attempt to stand in the field? 
• What if Wright Brothers had got satisfied by their ability to jump against the gravity using their legs? 
• What if Steve Jobs had decided not to visit the manufacturing industries around his town which he might have thought as useless ones? 
• What if Einstien hadn't asked himself  'What if  we travel in light speed?'... Of course "Relativity theory" wouldn't had born... 

• What if , what if... there are lots of 'What ifs' for which the answers had made great histories... 

                Each and  every thing we do in our life time definitely will have impact on our lives itself... Remember that, missing an opportunity is also one of that 'Each and every things'...

                I view life as a maze game... There is a reason for this... In a maze game, we never know what behind each and every walls and every turns inside the Maze... Life also doesn't reveal anything unless you move forward... And one cliche point is that, our life starts at the centre of the maze... Whether or not you want to play it, you are already inside the game... There are two choices you can go for... One is you can reside inside a place and get satisfied for playing well the maze-game... Obviously no one knows in which piece of the game you are at and you also can't know at which piece of the maze others are at... Unless you start exploring the place... I can't say that you can get nurtured by the experiences, but I can assure that more you explore life, more you come to know you hadn't known many things... Which in turn can urge you to explore more...        

             Finally, I have never heard of some one saying their missed chances in their first life, making use of them in their second life or the life after which they are living now... As far as we know, we got only one life to dwell inside, make impact, go long and jump out of the sky if you wish... So make the living best... Never get stagnated at a single thing... Take a ride, get to the top of  a cliff and say to the world  "I am here to live my life to the fullest... So there are no more excuses and no more reconsiderations..." Take part in everything... Be a part of every smiles around you...  

                

Aftermath of Exams!!!

               It's been a while I posted... The exams do cause many changes in us... I love exams as much as I hate them... Yeah it's true... First of all I hate them because they are being used to judged a person's capacity... I love them because, exam times are the one at which my mind get equipped with more number of things to accomplish, except studying...  It's a common mania for most of us, that we tend to do any work during the exams that we might not even considered during other days... Funny but true...

             Whenever we feel a thing that we can find ourselves instantly that we are in that feel, just stop there and think of that feel... Analyse it... What is causing it?  What does it do? Is it a good feel or Is it good to feel? If so then how to bring the feel again and again whenever required?

             These questions which I always try to answer helps control our thoughts... It can help us create a strategy and follow them or gives a way to manage that strategy...  This is one of the simple way to understand our inner thoughts and act upon them...

              For example, there are many writers, artists, dancers, musicians etc who have the habit of making an art only at a particular place at particular environment... Some writers sit and write flawless sitting on the shore whereas some artists tend to draw only being in natural sceneries...  The reason is that they understand their inner thoughts which let them create art only when they feel being in their desired places... As a budding writers, artists or any kind of people who are making art, I hope it is an important and also effective thing to be followed.. (i.e)  Find a metaphor for your work... Use that and make art... I am on my way of finding my metaphor...

             Coming back to exams, a friend of mine said once that it helps prepare for exams efficiently if you involve in some curious activities before start studying... I wanted to reconsider this theory on my view... As I said before exams are the ones that is leading me to find some other curious things than studying...

             No one can compete a student's imagination boundaries when he/she is sitting in front of book at late night a day before the exam with a new topic to cover along with the deep sleep in eyes... We need to imagine something else to keep ourselves wakeup... That is the most beautiful time for powerful and effective thoughts to be born(sometimes crazier)...

             I am not here to blame the whole education system for made us have attitude like this about exams... Though I don't explicitly do that, many of us could think of the true reason for our overwhelming hatred for exams... Others not only define how good we are at studies, but also try to figure out capacity, talents, interests using this single exam results... If a student doesn't get high marks it doesn't mean he/she doesn't studied well or he/she is not capable of scoring marks...
These exams are also indirect reason for Our Messed up Minds!!!

             Once I got arrears in few papers... It is unexpected though... The time that I took to clear them is when I hated this marking system to the core... Especially the people who judged me through my marks... The funny fact is that even people who know me, have been seeing me for long time used to create a bad attitude on me and people around me started advising me to be careful in upcoming semesters...  At one point I felt like as if I had committed a murder...   I am not blaming them...  I also can't blame the system that transformed people to be so judgemental based on marks... Because system is a system... We got to follow them is what they gonna put forward... I am just blaming myself for being in such a scenario and ironically being sensitive to the ill effects of that scenario...

              "No matter how good you are at something, People will always point your disability..."   

Holidays in a view of Crazy guy
              After the exams comes the holidays... All viewing holidays as rest after a great stress produced by 4 months of semester and 1 month exam... But I couldn't view my holidays as a rest...
Instead I  thinking like 'Oh god... Holidays are nearing, I got to get prepared to do things... I need to get membership from Library, I need to finish reading unread books in my shelves, I got to volunteer for service activities, I have to do this, that bla bla ... I can't rush them at the last minute...' That's what dragging me... That's what pulling me up whenever I am down...

               After all we all have got our own way of viewing things and getting used to them... It doesn't matter in what way we view them... The matter is what does your view brought you?  Think of it...

               'Aftermath of Exams is a great opportunity for me to make bigger leaps and reach heights that I didn't reached so far...'    

கூச்சல்

                     

கண் இமைக்கும் நேரத்தில்

மின்னலாய் பறந்தன வாகனங்கள்...

அரை-குளியல் அவசரத்தில்

அரை கப் காபி குடிக்க கூட

நேரமில்லாததை நினைத்து

கடிந்து கொண்டிருந்தேன்

பேருந்தில் அமர்ந்துகொண்டு....

பேருந்து கடந்து செல்லும்  சாலையின்

ஓரமாய் கூடி இருந்த கூட்டத்தை

கண்டு திரும்பிய தலைகளுள் எனதுமிருந்தது...

‘உயிர் போயிற்று,

உடல் இதோ இங்கே இருக்கிறது’ என,

கடந்து செல்பவருக்கெல்லாம்

தான் இருக்கும் இடத்தை

அடையாளம் காட்டியது  

பாதாள சாக்கடையில் முங்கி கிடப்பவனின்

கால்கள், வெளியே நீட்டி கொண்டு...

இறந்து கிடப்பவனின் ஆன்மா

ஆயிரத்து எட்டாவது ஆளாக

என்னிடமும் சொல்லியே விட்டது,

“பார்த்து சிலிர்த்து , கடந்து செல்ல

இங்கு நடந்தேறியது மயிர்க்கூச்சல் அல்ல

உயிர் கூச்சல் " என்று... 

                                                                                                                                                   -மகா                                                                                                        

Letters- A sad confession...

                     Does it look like a cliche topic? Yes it is... I intentionally wanted it to be cliched... And I'll tell you the reason in the meantime... For now let the post carries a theme as the topic sounds...Totally a miserable tone... 

                     A friend of mine pointed this strongly and it urged me to share my opinion about letters...  

                    

                    Actually, most of our generation boys and girls are slightly pity, for not experiencing the beautiful feel of dealing with Letters which our parents and grandparents might have gone through once... You can ask either your parents or your friend's parents about the feel of Letters, and you will get a plenty of interesting tales that a writer could possibly make best sellers... 

      

                    A letter is not just something simple as the name suggests... Writing a letter is not just taking care of  'to' and 'from' addresses and not forgetting to point the 'subject' ,as our schools had taught us...  They are not just old fashioned means of communication... They aren't the tool of non-technical people of today... 

                     Most of the letters start with salutation "My dear ____". People meant it when they penned down it.. But these days when some one uses "dear" over emails or chats, most often they are either being abstract or the person hearing them take it as nothing-so-important about it...   

                     While writing a letter, people use to gather most valuable points to put down... They longed to write letters in most attractive manner to grab their loved one's attention... And that had lead to the birth of many soulful and lovable writers those days... Though not writers, they had been good humans... I am not blaming that today's people are in-human... But relationships, conversations, confessions, etc through internet had caused lack of basic human feelings and deeds towards another humans... Those days a person's collection of letters can say his/ her character well... But these days, a chat history always remains to be a mystery... Letters spoke out the thoughts inside the heart... They weren't filled with threads and threads of silly reasons for fights, misunderstandings, chaos, hatred etc... As far as the letters were alive, one soul's love towards another soul hadn't been so difficult as today...      

                      Imagine this... "You are a lean guy with mediocre height, with pale complexation... You are probably neither so-called handsome one nor a bad one to label... You are sitting on your balcony in silence... You are eagerly waiting for a letter to be delivered to your house… Precisely for a reply for your last letter from a girl who means a lot to you... A reply that you expect to reveal about something for which you longed the most... You are looking at the street restlessly for any sign of post man's arrival...You seems bit nervous... The wind is cold and it blows on your face that make you realise the chillness of the climate… Sun is off the sight and you could only see dark clouds curling up above your head… You feel like they are contributing perfectly at this time for your mood…  

                     Many thoughts are floating same as the clouds getting curled up in your mind...  'What if she think that I meant that point in a wrong way?' or What if she had took it as a thing that she was longing to confess?' , ‘Would she have replied for my letter?’, ‘Would she accept? ’ , ‘Did I made a mistake? ’, ‘Should I have elaborated a bit?’, ‘What did she meant by that line in her last letter?’ , ‘Does she feel the same way I feel about her?’... With all the thoughts running up, you feel a chill spine running through your back… A feel of satisfaction… A relief of dropping some burden from the heart… Now you are ready to face any kind of reply… Making up your mind out of these thoughts, you are lifting your head up on the sky, after which you hear your calling bell sound, some one in front of your door saying, ‘Sir Post…’ ”

                   Doesn't that sounds like we all are missing some valuable feelings, emotions, experiences  like these which had been defeated by quick confessions and fast replies, fast heart breaking talks,quick acceptances or rejections, relationships that don't even last for mere fraction of times of these days…   If you want to experience this beautiful thing, try writing a letter for your friend... Write things that you may text them the whole night, all the day... And if you find it difficult to grab the important words or doesn't know what to share through a letter, then please redefine your friendship's terms and conditions... Give the letter to your friend in hand, ask them to reply for your's and wait for it... If you like the experience, then go on continuing this practice... I bet you would be amazed to read and write stuff about your friend or lovable ones...  

                   Most of the great people’s autobiographies are taken from their hand written letters only… I don’t know how many of us going to have so-called autobiographies that going to inspire our upcoming generations…In those days more than posted letters, unposted  letters do speak many truths… Do reveal many secrets… 

                    At one side, saving trees by avoiding usage of papers are really appreciable fact…  But that's is why I said this post is a sad confession… Some things in life are meant to be missed forever even after we know that they make us feel good… For the fact that, it may bring goodness in someone else’s lives…    

                   

Library-mania!!!

                      Isn't the title of this post a bit strange? 'Library-mania'... What is mania?
What does it take to be maniac? Whether getting maniac about something is good or bad? Let us talk about it, considering it as an elaborate subject...

                      If you are not into these kind of library stuff, then you can move on to any other posts... But I bet you that if you read this post completely you will become a 'maniac'... Just kidding...

                      First of all there is nothing bad about a being maniac on good things... May be that good things list vary from one another... As far as a strong desire about something is concerned, exhibiting to be maniac can help a lot...

                      Now coming to the point, Library maniacs are not so scarce in number... Many are out there and around us... They use to be with us, eat with us, do things like we and most of the people do... After all maniacs are not supposed to seem like some creepy creatures on planet whom others may think they appear bit crazy... They are ordinary people... These library maniacs are some of them who needs to be taken notice of... And make it a note that am one of them...

                      Love towards library is not like a love of a person towards a flower as it is being admired by others... It is not like a some one who get inspired by a person as others get inspired by that person... No one on this earth would like to think like,one of  his/ her dream had come true when that person stands in the middle of two racks full of books with the smell of those papers and prints and there flows a fine chill inside the body that makes them realise this is not a dream, this is reality that proves our dream real, without having a craze towards books...

                      What is it a reader will ask for, more than a life inside a library? Waking up in the morning seeing the stack of books in front... Having a coffee sitting there, having a book in hand... You get up, sit down, walk through, stare at, sleep with, think of, make fun,and live happy ,do each and everything along with books... Lots of books... Books enough to read for your lifetime... If you are the one who wants to live a life like this, then it is obvious you are on the starting stage of becoming maniac towards library or you might have already become one...  Check out my older posts "World of Readers" if you want to read about the reader's minds...

                      If you are happy , there will be many friendly books in a library to share it with... If you are glum inside, there are many enthusiastic ones to make you bright...  If you are struggling to make a decision, there are wise ones... There are good ones to make you feel good... There are helpful one for your progresses... There will be lovely ones, bold ones, inspiring ones, awesome ones and lively ones... These days it is being hard to find lively people around... In a library, there are no short for that and also other kinds...

                       Books are mysterious but at the same time most joyful worlds that are wide opened for any one to enter into... I some times wonder, why people don't getting an opportunity of getting into  exciting states that are readily available?  Whether they don't want to get excited or they don't know, here in the plenty of printed pages and in the enormous freaky creaky words lies there excitements?
Pity,I conclude of them...

                        You don't need only to be maniac to love libraries... There are many classical kind of lovers who spend there times for either peace making or just for gaining knowledge...  Whatever, libraries are one of the most powerful and most brilliant place for humans... Besides they are the power source for man kind... I always see them like that... A power source being kept inside blocks and blocks of buildings arranged section wise with racks and racks of books that are any time available for people to get charged up...

                         At last, if you hadn't been to a library,please make a visit... Sitting inside a library with heck of silence surrounded by either maniacs or brilliant people and hearing 'tushhhh', 'tushhh' kind of sound that often created by others turning the pages,and 'wshh','wshh' sound of a fan, that relaxes your mind,and set things up straight,become ready to jump from a high cliff, probably more height from which only glimps of  bright lights are visible(cover and back cover description),and clear your thoughts...No matter what comes in front of your way,no matter how strong it take to make a  jump, no matter phone rings or time to get to go or whatever it is,that may stop you from jumping, put aside all of them make a leap,a small jerk of a jump by turning your first page and start reading your book... It will definitely make you a desperate lover towards books...  If you don't agree with me, then ask other maniacs around you... May be the one sitting beside you... Who knows? These people are really silent killers...  

              Are you ready? Get prepared to be maniac and brace yourself to make a big jump...            

மற்றுமொரு காதல் தோல்வி!!!

                          

என் வீட்டு மாடியில் கொத்து கொத்தாக பூத்திருக்கும் 

மஞ்சள் பூக்களை ரசித்து கொண்டிருந்தேன்,

ஏனோ தெரியவில்லை இப்பூக்களை பார்க்கையில் 

தனி பரவசம் மனதில் எழுகிறது…

இதற்கு காரணம் அந்த பூக்களின் அழகா 

இல்லை அதனை காணும் என் கண்களின் ரசனையா 

என விளங்க வில்லை...

அருகில் சென்று ரசிப்போம் என எண்ணி அருகில் சென்றேன்...

ஒரு பூவின் உள்ளிருந்து தேனி ஒன்று வெளியே வந்தது,

அது அனைத்து பூக்களின் உள்ளும் அற்புதமாக ஊடுருவி,

பூவுக்கும் வலிக்காமல், தனக்கும் வலிக்காமல் தேனெடுத்து கொண்டிருந்தது...

அதை காணும் போது 

காதலன் காதலிக்கு கொடுக்கும் 

இரகசிய முத்தம் போல் தோன்றியது...

தேனெடுக்கும் வித்தை தெரியாததாலோ என்னவோ,

பூக்களின் மீதான என் காதல் பூக்களுக்கு தெரியாமலே போகிறது...

மற்றுமொரு காதல் தோல்வி!!!

பொற்காலம்!!!

திருவிழா கூட்ட சாலையிலே,

வட்ட நிலா வேளையிலே ,

குளிர் காற்று வீசையிலே,

ராட்டினங்கள் சுற்றும் ஓசையிலே,

பொம்மை கடை காரன் 

‘அய்யா வாங்க, 

அம்மா வாங்க. 

கலர் பொம்ம வேணுமா, 

கரடி பொம்ம வேணுமா, 

மனுச பொம்ம வேணுமா’ என கூவையிலே,

வான வேடிக்கைகளை பார்த்து கொண்டு,

பஞ்சு மிட்டாய் ருசித்து கொண்டு,

தந்தை சுண்டு விரல் பிடியில் இருந்து கொண்டு,

‘அப்பா ரெட் கலர் பலூன் வேணும்’ 

என்று அடம் பிடித்து கேட்ட காலம்

பொற்காலம்...  

காலை...

நிலவு உறங்க போகும் நேரம்,

சேவல் கூவி என் உறக்கத்தை கெடுத்ததால்

இது கொக்கரக்கோ காலையோ?

தோட்டத்து பூ செடியில் மொட்டு ஒன்று 

கண்பரிக்கும் அழகோடு மலர்ந்தது கண்டு களிப்புற்றதால்

இது மலர்விடு காலையோ?

கண்பரித்த மழலை மொட்டு மேல் 

பொன் பொறித்த விதமாய் இருக்கும்

பனித்துளி உணர்த்துகிறது,

இது பனி விழும் காலை...

சட்டென்று கேட்ட குட்டி நாயின் கூச்சல் 

என் கவனத்தை ஈர்த்தது...

அது வெறும் கூச்சல் அல்ல,

விளையாட்டு கூச்சல்,

தாயை பார்த்து குட்டி நாய் போடும் செல்ல கூச்சல்,

தாய்,குட்டியை தடவி தரும் போது போடும் ஆசுவாச கூச்சல்,

தாயின் அருகில்,அன்பில்,அரவணைப்பில் 

மூழ்கி போன நிறைவு கூச்சல்…

அந்த தாய் சேய் உறவு, 

பார்க்க பார்க்க சிலிர்த்தது…

திடீரென்று தாய் தன் குட்டியின் கழுத்தை கவ்வி கொண்டு

குப்பை தொட்டி ஒன்றன் அருகில் பத்திர படுத்தியது,

மனித நடமாட்டம் அதிகமானதாலோ என்னவோ...

இதென்ன !!!

நாய்க்கும் ஆறாம் அறிவு வளர்ந்ததோ என வியந்தேன்…

வியந்த அதே நேரம் தாய் பாசத்திற்கு அறிவு பொருட்டு இல்லை என்பதை உணர்ந்தேன்.... 

இந்த அழகிய காட்சி என் மனதை தொட்டு சொன்னது , 

இது அன்பின் வாசம் நிறைந்த காலை... 

காலையின் அழகை கவித்துவத்தோடு ரசித்த பின்,

என்னால் மறுபடியும் காதல் வந்தது தேநீர்க்கும் செய்தி தாளுக்கும்...

 பார்வையை செய்தி தாள் பக்கம் திருப்பினேன்...

அதில் “பச்சிளம் குழந்தை குப்பை தொட்டியில் அனாதையாக இறந்து கிடந்தது”

என்ற செய்தியை வாசித்ததும் தோன்றியது ஒன்று தான்...

இது ஆறு அறிவு மனிதன் அழிந்து கொண்டிருக்கும், தன்னை அழித்து கொண்டிருக்கும் உலகத்தை பற்றிய கவலை மிகுந்த காலை  என...

ஆறு அறிவு மனிதன்!!! இருந்தென்ன பயன்... ??

My Learning Theory!!!

                       It is always amazing to learn something and do what we learnt and again learn from what we did and do what we learnt from past experience. Life without learning is like an amusement park without a Roller Coaster. Learning will complete the purpose of our life. Every living beings use to learn different things by different ways. One’s learning strategy may not help other. Let me share some of my thoughts and experiences on how I learnt few skills in my life.

 Here I am not intended to let the readers understand the fact that “Determination and Desire can help us achieve any thing.” Instead I want to convey some information by which they can hold their determination strongly and live their life with desire. Learning doesn’t get accomplished only by gaining knowledge. It gets fulfilled only if we apply what we learnt.

No matter what Barriers stand in your way, Never lose sight of your goal.

-Mark Wilson.

                

                   I want to pin out an Interesting story taken from Mahabaratham,

One of the Great epics of Ancient India.   

             Once there were Five Brothers. Five Great Legends who ruled all over India those days. During their Teenage days they have been trained for Archery Skill which would be useful during the war. Arjunan was one of the five brothers and he is well known for Archery skill in his later days. Dhronachariya was the teacher for Archery Classes and he too was an Archery expert.

One day During the training Dhronachariya asked one of his students to aim an eye of a bird which were sitting at the branch of a tree.  That student took his bow and arrow and aimed at one of the eyes of that Bird. Now Dhrona asked

What you see?

Student replied “I see a tree, a branch in that tree, leaves in that Branch, a bird sitting in that Branch  and  its eyes.”  

Dhrona smiled and asked Arjunan to aim an eye of that bird.

Now Dhrona asked Arjunan

What you see?

Arjunan replied “I see an eye of a Bird.”

Dhrona  tapped Arjunan’s back and praised him for his attitude.

May be Arjunan’s desire towards his learning process had lead a path for him, becoming a Great archer.  

        When I was around 15 years old, I got drastic interest towards Shaping up my  body and wanted to achieve masculine structure. Once I started running towards my desire to achieve well built body, first problem I faced was my studies. Besides I have had to accept the pain. Working out is not an easy task though at the age of 15. Some other problems also I faced which made me feel like “Why the hell I need to do this?”, “What I am going to get by running behind this desire crazily?”. But  What drives me to continue running towards my desire and what make me feel determined is the pride which I would feel after I accomplish the goal.  That is the only reason that pushed me to achieve things.

As the quote says, when someone is determined about something, only way to keep up their determination is to cut all the craps that stands in their way and focus on the goal. The Goal which they want to accomplish. The Goal which they were determined about. The Goal which brings real Happiness in themselves. 

Don’t wait for your Ship to come in,Swim out to it.

                                                                   -Cathy Hopkins.  

Two Boat Men

Before we get started let me tell you short story. Precisely, shorter than short.

             There were 2 Boat men getting ready to go into the sea for Fishing. They both had known that Cyclone would be coming soon. Despite they went on and got stuck at the middle of the sea and the GPS which they brought to communicate doesn’t have signal and so they were not able to contact the coast guards...They both realised that sooner or later, Due to the effect of the cyclone their boat is going to get upside down...  

Now they have only  2 choices… Either Jump into the sea and swim unless they find a Shore(Though both the Boatmen knows that the waves will further take them deep into the sea)…  or wait for any other ship to come  for Help. Second choice may not  guaranty their lives because the boat was small and they were prone to death . One Boat man decided to stay in the boat unless he gets any help while other  decided to jump  into the sea , swim and  find the Shore. There may be 2 results based on the decisions.  Either Boat man who decided to swim and save himself will become safer soon than  the one who decided to stay…  Or Both will die…

                  If people have an attitude like “I got talent, I am waiting for an Opportunity to prove myself” or “I don’t know whether I have talent or not, I need an Opportunity to Understand myself”, then I would say they are Hitting on the iron, which is of no use. There is nothing like Opportunities that will knock your door and say “Come on, use me”. They are meant to be created by our self. If we miss this opportunity, we can avail another opportunity, another one, again one. Opportunities are available unless we stop trying to find it.   

         A simple dating technique will apply for the life. If we wait for our crush to come to us and ask for a date, then He/ She may get busy with any other. May be Funny , but it’s the fact.    

         

Always Desire to learn something useful

                                                          -Sophecles

               I divide people’s life into 2 general category. One is who live their life learning something new every day and enjoying it. Another one is enjoying the life without learning anything new. 

 

       Life Without learning anything new is like a digging a coal mine continuously in a place where there is no need of electricity or any other uses of coal… Life would be incomplete and unreasonable than…

        Learn something and enjoy from what we have learnt or enjoy the life and let us learn something from what we have enjoyed…    

           

           

A Creative man is motivated by Desire to Achieve.

                                                                                    -Ayn Rand

               When I say Creative man, I didn’t mean person who have lots of creativity in mind. It is for people who have got the desire to achieve something in life. They don’t need to be Creators. Today’s desires will be tomorrow’s creations. Primary need to achieve great heights or develop any skills is to have a strong desire and sticking tight to the desire at any cost. A Creative mind can only be motivated by Desire to achieve things in life, not by the desire to win others.

                       

            In 2012 when I started writing, I was nothing. I was not even able to write a single paragraph  that is worth reading. I got no talents. Don’t know anything about writing. Only thing I had is desire to achieve. I am not trying to point that I am creative. But the desire that I got that day had helped me improve my skills.  Helped  me to learn many things about writing.  Droved me to read many books and Refine myself. When I wrote my 1^st Poem it was awful. I myself could not read it. When I started my first short story , I got dumb stuck at 1^st line. I didn’t know how to start? , Where to start?, What to write? Etc. Desire is the only thing that has been with me for these days and it was the reason I started enrolling in Online Courses and it is the reason for development of  my so called “Writing Skill” by which I am able to write an essay today.

                 As writers we have many things to grab from outside and accomplish our desires. As a person we have many things to learn which can help us accomplish our goals towards our life. Only thing which differs is the way of Learning. We all are writers already, by some reason. Only thing which signifies one writer from other is the way of learning. Every one of us has unique stories… Either do something that worth writing or write something that worth reading…

 

“World need no more proverbs. It needs guidelines that help us follow the existing ones.” 

 -Maha