மற்றுமொரு காதல் தோல்வி!!!

                          

என் வீட்டு மாடியில் கொத்து கொத்தாக பூத்திருக்கும் 

மஞ்சள் பூக்களை ரசித்து கொண்டிருந்தேன்,

ஏனோ தெரியவில்லை இப்பூக்களை பார்க்கையில் 

தனி பரவசம் மனதில் எழுகிறது…

இதற்கு காரணம் அந்த பூக்களின் அழகா 

இல்லை அதனை காணும் என் கண்களின் ரசனையா 

என விளங்க வில்லை...

அருகில் சென்று ரசிப்போம் என எண்ணி அருகில் சென்றேன்...

ஒரு பூவின் உள்ளிருந்து தேனி ஒன்று வெளியே வந்தது,

அது அனைத்து பூக்களின் உள்ளும் அற்புதமாக ஊடுருவி,

பூவுக்கும் வலிக்காமல், தனக்கும் வலிக்காமல் தேனெடுத்து கொண்டிருந்தது...

அதை காணும் போது 

காதலன் காதலிக்கு கொடுக்கும் 

இரகசிய முத்தம் போல் தோன்றியது...

தேனெடுக்கும் வித்தை தெரியாததாலோ என்னவோ,

பூக்களின் மீதான என் காதல் பூக்களுக்கு தெரியாமலே போகிறது...

மற்றுமொரு காதல் தோல்வி!!!

பொற்காலம்!!!

திருவிழா கூட்ட சாலையிலே,

வட்ட நிலா வேளையிலே ,

குளிர் காற்று வீசையிலே,

ராட்டினங்கள் சுற்றும் ஓசையிலே,

பொம்மை கடை காரன் 

‘அய்யா வாங்க, 

அம்மா வாங்க. 

கலர் பொம்ம வேணுமா, 

கரடி பொம்ம வேணுமா, 

மனுச பொம்ம வேணுமா’ என கூவையிலே,

வான வேடிக்கைகளை பார்த்து கொண்டு,

பஞ்சு மிட்டாய் ருசித்து கொண்டு,

தந்தை சுண்டு விரல் பிடியில் இருந்து கொண்டு,

‘அப்பா ரெட் கலர் பலூன் வேணும்’ 

என்று அடம் பிடித்து கேட்ட காலம்

பொற்காலம்...  

காலை...

நிலவு உறங்க போகும் நேரம்,

சேவல் கூவி என் உறக்கத்தை கெடுத்ததால்

இது கொக்கரக்கோ காலையோ?

தோட்டத்து பூ செடியில் மொட்டு ஒன்று 

கண்பரிக்கும் அழகோடு மலர்ந்தது கண்டு களிப்புற்றதால்

இது மலர்விடு காலையோ?

கண்பரித்த மழலை மொட்டு மேல் 

பொன் பொறித்த விதமாய் இருக்கும்

பனித்துளி உணர்த்துகிறது,

இது பனி விழும் காலை...

சட்டென்று கேட்ட குட்டி நாயின் கூச்சல் 

என் கவனத்தை ஈர்த்தது...

அது வெறும் கூச்சல் அல்ல,

விளையாட்டு கூச்சல்,

தாயை பார்த்து குட்டி நாய் போடும் செல்ல கூச்சல்,

தாய்,குட்டியை தடவி தரும் போது போடும் ஆசுவாச கூச்சல்,

தாயின் அருகில்,அன்பில்,அரவணைப்பில் 

மூழ்கி போன நிறைவு கூச்சல்…

அந்த தாய் சேய் உறவு, 

பார்க்க பார்க்க சிலிர்த்தது…

திடீரென்று தாய் தன் குட்டியின் கழுத்தை கவ்வி கொண்டு

குப்பை தொட்டி ஒன்றன் அருகில் பத்திர படுத்தியது,

மனித நடமாட்டம் அதிகமானதாலோ என்னவோ...

இதென்ன !!!

நாய்க்கும் ஆறாம் அறிவு வளர்ந்ததோ என வியந்தேன்…

வியந்த அதே நேரம் தாய் பாசத்திற்கு அறிவு பொருட்டு இல்லை என்பதை உணர்ந்தேன்.... 

இந்த அழகிய காட்சி என் மனதை தொட்டு சொன்னது , 

இது அன்பின் வாசம் நிறைந்த காலை... 

காலையின் அழகை கவித்துவத்தோடு ரசித்த பின்,

என்னால் மறுபடியும் காதல் வந்தது தேநீர்க்கும் செய்தி தாளுக்கும்...

 பார்வையை செய்தி தாள் பக்கம் திருப்பினேன்...

அதில் “பச்சிளம் குழந்தை குப்பை தொட்டியில் அனாதையாக இறந்து கிடந்தது”

என்ற செய்தியை வாசித்ததும் தோன்றியது ஒன்று தான்...

இது ஆறு அறிவு மனிதன் அழிந்து கொண்டிருக்கும், தன்னை அழித்து கொண்டிருக்கும் உலகத்தை பற்றிய கவலை மிகுந்த காலை  என...

ஆறு அறிவு மனிதன்!!! இருந்தென்ன பயன்... ??

My Learning Theory!!!

                       It is always amazing to learn something and do what we learnt and again learn from what we did and do what we learnt from past experience. Life without learning is like an amusement park without a Roller Coaster. Learning will complete the purpose of our life. Every living beings use to learn different things by different ways. One’s learning strategy may not help other. Let me share some of my thoughts and experiences on how I learnt few skills in my life.

 Here I am not intended to let the readers understand the fact that “Determination and Desire can help us achieve any thing.” Instead I want to convey some information by which they can hold their determination strongly and live their life with desire. Learning doesn’t get accomplished only by gaining knowledge. It gets fulfilled only if we apply what we learnt.

No matter what Barriers stand in your way, Never lose sight of your goal.

-Mark Wilson.

                

                   I want to pin out an Interesting story taken from Mahabaratham,

One of the Great epics of Ancient India.   

             Once there were Five Brothers. Five Great Legends who ruled all over India those days. During their Teenage days they have been trained for Archery Skill which would be useful during the war. Arjunan was one of the five brothers and he is well known for Archery skill in his later days. Dhronachariya was the teacher for Archery Classes and he too was an Archery expert.

One day During the training Dhronachariya asked one of his students to aim an eye of a bird which were sitting at the branch of a tree.  That student took his bow and arrow and aimed at one of the eyes of that Bird. Now Dhrona asked

What you see?

Student replied “I see a tree, a branch in that tree, leaves in that Branch, a bird sitting in that Branch  and  its eyes.”  

Dhrona smiled and asked Arjunan to aim an eye of that bird.

Now Dhrona asked Arjunan

What you see?

Arjunan replied “I see an eye of a Bird.”

Dhrona  tapped Arjunan’s back and praised him for his attitude.

May be Arjunan’s desire towards his learning process had lead a path for him, becoming a Great archer.  

        When I was around 15 years old, I got drastic interest towards Shaping up my  body and wanted to achieve masculine structure. Once I started running towards my desire to achieve well built body, first problem I faced was my studies. Besides I have had to accept the pain. Working out is not an easy task though at the age of 15. Some other problems also I faced which made me feel like “Why the hell I need to do this?”, “What I am going to get by running behind this desire crazily?”. But  What drives me to continue running towards my desire and what make me feel determined is the pride which I would feel after I accomplish the goal.  That is the only reason that pushed me to achieve things.

As the quote says, when someone is determined about something, only way to keep up their determination is to cut all the craps that stands in their way and focus on the goal. The Goal which they want to accomplish. The Goal which they were determined about. The Goal which brings real Happiness in themselves. 

Don’t wait for your Ship to come in,Swim out to it.

                                                                   -Cathy Hopkins.  

Two Boat Men

Before we get started let me tell you short story. Precisely, shorter than short.

             There were 2 Boat men getting ready to go into the sea for Fishing. They both had known that Cyclone would be coming soon. Despite they went on and got stuck at the middle of the sea and the GPS which they brought to communicate doesn’t have signal and so they were not able to contact the coast guards...They both realised that sooner or later, Due to the effect of the cyclone their boat is going to get upside down...  

Now they have only  2 choices… Either Jump into the sea and swim unless they find a Shore(Though both the Boatmen knows that the waves will further take them deep into the sea)…  or wait for any other ship to come  for Help. Second choice may not  guaranty their lives because the boat was small and they were prone to death . One Boat man decided to stay in the boat unless he gets any help while other  decided to jump  into the sea , swim and  find the Shore. There may be 2 results based on the decisions.  Either Boat man who decided to swim and save himself will become safer soon than  the one who decided to stay…  Or Both will die…

                  If people have an attitude like “I got talent, I am waiting for an Opportunity to prove myself” or “I don’t know whether I have talent or not, I need an Opportunity to Understand myself”, then I would say they are Hitting on the iron, which is of no use. There is nothing like Opportunities that will knock your door and say “Come on, use me”. They are meant to be created by our self. If we miss this opportunity, we can avail another opportunity, another one, again one. Opportunities are available unless we stop trying to find it.   

         A simple dating technique will apply for the life. If we wait for our crush to come to us and ask for a date, then He/ She may get busy with any other. May be Funny , but it’s the fact.    

         

Always Desire to learn something useful

                                                          -Sophecles

               I divide people’s life into 2 general category. One is who live their life learning something new every day and enjoying it. Another one is enjoying the life without learning anything new. 

 

       Life Without learning anything new is like a digging a coal mine continuously in a place where there is no need of electricity or any other uses of coal… Life would be incomplete and unreasonable than…

        Learn something and enjoy from what we have learnt or enjoy the life and let us learn something from what we have enjoyed…    

           

           

A Creative man is motivated by Desire to Achieve.

                                                                                    -Ayn Rand

               When I say Creative man, I didn’t mean person who have lots of creativity in mind. It is for people who have got the desire to achieve something in life. They don’t need to be Creators. Today’s desires will be tomorrow’s creations. Primary need to achieve great heights or develop any skills is to have a strong desire and sticking tight to the desire at any cost. A Creative mind can only be motivated by Desire to achieve things in life, not by the desire to win others.

                       

            In 2012 when I started writing, I was nothing. I was not even able to write a single paragraph  that is worth reading. I got no talents. Don’t know anything about writing. Only thing I had is desire to achieve. I am not trying to point that I am creative. But the desire that I got that day had helped me improve my skills.  Helped  me to learn many things about writing.  Droved me to read many books and Refine myself. When I wrote my 1^st Poem it was awful. I myself could not read it. When I started my first short story , I got dumb stuck at 1^st line. I didn’t know how to start? , Where to start?, What to write? Etc. Desire is the only thing that has been with me for these days and it was the reason I started enrolling in Online Courses and it is the reason for development of  my so called “Writing Skill” by which I am able to write an essay today.

                 As writers we have many things to grab from outside and accomplish our desires. As a person we have many things to learn which can help us accomplish our goals towards our life. Only thing which differs is the way of Learning. We all are writers already, by some reason. Only thing which signifies one writer from other is the way of learning. Every one of us has unique stories… Either do something that worth writing or write something that worth reading…

 

“World need no more proverbs. It needs guidelines that help us follow the existing ones.” 

 -Maha

                                                                                                                                   

Our messed up minds!!!

                 
                         Let me start this pointing out one of the well known sayings,

                                         - A Pen is mightier than a Sword... 

I could see a major misunderstanding factor when people read this... The word 'Pen' in the proverb doesn't mean any sort of literature or great epic... It doesn't mean a writer's words are mightier than a Sword... It doesn't mean that only words can help Humans come over the violence... 

The word 'Pen' mean each and every Human minds... The impact that a human mind can create over this world has more power to lead than a impact that can be created by war and violence... Our human minds are the most wonderful creations of nature and also the most mysterious creations that world has ever seen before... The power of human mind can ____... 

Wait a second...  

Oh my god... 

I forgot something...  

How on this earth could a freak like me forget this important thing? 

I wonder how it could even happen... 

How messed up my mind could be to forget that I am in 20th century where all of our minds are so so messy , absurd...? 

Seems funny right? 

No it's not... For a matter of fact, that proverb no more suits for the people of this generation... That too most of the young people of today's world are victims of lacking the eligibility for deserving this proverb...  These days most of us either don't want to point out bitter things or accept them... This factor though seems bitter, we have to accept them... Our minds are no longer mightier than sword... 

There may be many contradictions to this theory like, people of today's world are getting exposed to  most of the things... Knowledge gaining had found much more ways to reach the people that we couldn't  even imagine... Internet world has changed millions of people's lives and helped them to come over their miseries...  Those points are quite true...  I am also fond of Internet's uses... But still this there are demerits that has to be considered... 

The messed up state of our minds are not only caused due to the over dose of internet, many more factors... Internet is one of the factors...    

           So now, you may be frustrated and become unbearable on reading the dragging kind of this post which doesn't come to the point directly... And that's what I called messed up mind... 

           The frustration,unbearable attitude,lack of attention  on reading some useful stuff for life that is going to consume your time of checking the facebook status responses, refreshing the page continuously for new tweets, checking the mail once in 10 minutes even after knowing there's nothing going to be important and stuff like these... 

            

            If you feel like taking something and throw at my face or come to my house straight and put something on my head or beat me to the hell for posting such things, then please continue reading for a while,because this post is absolutely dedicated for you and your messed up mind and also for those who wants to know more about the status of danger we all are facing...    

               

           None of the theories will be accepted by us, unless it is proven to be real or at least if we see some example of that... Lemme go by the classic way of proving my idea , using an example... 

           "Recently I was chatting with a friend of mine... I asked how was her day and she started narrating what happened that day... It was heavily raining and she is not sure whether college is holiday or not, she was getting ready for the college in confusion(may be expecting a holiday,besides who wants to go for college getting wet?)...Only after she reaching the bus stop she came to know that she missed the college bus... Oops... She decided to get to the college by public transport and got the next bus... After getting into the bus,she find it hard to stabilize her because she was having umbrella in one hand and bag on other, she got no place to sit as all seats are wet...  She kind of  got  tensed and wanted to relax...  She pretend to be patient and asked the conductor for the stop she needs to get down... When she tried to reached her handbag to pay the fair amount she got a mini heart attack... She forgot to bring her purse... She had took her purse out the night before and forgot to keep it inside the bag... After giving a sarcastic look to the conductor, she explained what happened and got down at next stop... She was trying to communicate everyone through the mobile who might possibly come and help her... Unfortunately as it was raining and the signal on her mobile was too weak, every effort she took to get any kind of help went in vain... Oh my god... She missed the college bus... She didn't brought purse... She couldn't ask for help... It was raining heavily and if she wants to get back to home,she have to go by walk which was not preferable in that rain... In total mess she was standing at the stop next to her own stop... Fortunately another college bus came through the same route... She gave a big sigh of relief and got that bus... As the very morning of the day become frustrated, the upcoming things piled up the same way... And she had a not-so-called good day..." 

                       Most of you might be thinking, 

Why on the earth some one would forgot to take the purse.?,

Why she made it late even after knowing the bus won't wait too long?,

Once she knew it was raining, why she didn't made sure that, in no case she would miss the bus? 

Why she didn't keep a spare amount in her bag which might be helpful in these kind of situations? 

                 But it is not how we should analyse this... Instead of asking 'why', let us ask 'how'... 

How she forgot to take the purse? 

That's because she forgot to keep it back the night before... ,

How she forgot to keep it back the night before...? 

That may be because  she should have been in messed up mind or out of attention by which she failed to think about the morning schedule...

            This is not only the case of my friend... Most of the people in their daily life facing such situations and  wondering how... 

             The major reason is that our minds are messed up...   Are you interested in knowing how much messed up your mind is? Who doesn't want to?   Close the room doors, shut all kind of sounds around you..Sit straight and close your eyes for a five minutes and try to relax your mind... Try to concentrate on some particular thing of your interest... I request you to continue  reading this after doing so...My post will be waiting for you... 

              I did not asked you to meditate... I wanted you to observe the communication between your heart and mind... And you did it with ease...

Wait... 

Did you? Did you found it easy to concentrate?

If yes then it's great and  please make sure you don't get contaminated with messy mind... 

And my dear ones whose answers are 'No I couldn't able to concentrate even 5 mins...', it is necessary to consider it... 

             You closed your eyes for 5 minutes... In those 5 mins, every thoughts that came in front of you defines or evaluates how much you are messed up in today's world... 

             The very thoughts of saving the money for family, buying some necessary stuff for house that might be difficult for you to handle, yelling at your boss or Head of the department for not treating you as you expected them to be, family issues, day to day schedules, inability, distress, failures, hardship faced by you, relationship issues, improper recognition of your works, talents, college pressure, office pressure, unemployment problems , disrespect , shattering of dreams, machine life's problems,trying hard to find a solution for some problems etc etc... Everything shows the attributes of the messy world that cause messy things to make our minds messy which compelled me to put a post on messed up minds in the tone of same messy mind because of which I pretend like forgetting that we are in 21st century at first... 

             Human minds are not meant to be messed up... See yourself in the mirror and act the way you act in stressful situations, 'Oh my god I forgot to check the mail', 'Oops, I forgot to pay the bill', 'Oh god, I forgot the purse', 'I feel guilty for my action', 'I am the reason for this issue', 'I messed up the relation ship', 'I shouldn't have did that' , 'I should have considered this, that', whoa whoa...  does it look good? 

  

Consequences  

                You may ask ,'What it is going to take if the mind is tensed for single day?', it is going to increase my salary, going to protect my progress, going to bring me good marks bla bla stuff... 

But the consequences of stressful mind not only affect your routine for that single day... 

A messed up mind cause sleeplessness... And many researches have proved that sleeplessness is the major cause of cancer... It cause cancer in many ways and affect metabolic functioning of our body...

       

                   If you need more details please check the below link: 

Side effects of Sleep Deprivation

 First step  

                Understanding the problem is the first step you have to do, (learnt from 6th standard mathematics)... Do understand the problems of your mind... Take time to relax your mind everyday and know how much your mind got messed up that day... Start by 5 mins initially and increase it day by day... Once you start following it, you are ready to find the inverse theory to clear the messed up mind and you can find your own way of living the life happily... Each of us has unique stories to tell...  

Inverse theory

                  Most of the theories have inverse theories to stabilize them... This messed-up-mind theory also have inverse theory... Don't get messed up... Mess up the messing up things... Your health is important  than anything in the world... 

                               A pen is of course mightier than a Sword, but today's pens are need to be diagnosed psychologically by ourselves... If we overcome this problem, than we are the most influential species of the world that had seen so far...                 

              

பெண்!!!

வெண்ணிலவு சென்று தினம் வெள்ளை நிலா சோறு ஊட்டினாள் அன்னை,

கண்ணுறங்கும் வேலை வரை கதை கூறி சீராட்டினாள் அக்கா,

கல்வி தனை கண்ணாக போற்ற வேண்டும் என்று உணர வைத்தாள் ஆசிரியை,

வாழ்வில் உணர்வுகளுக்கு விளக்கம் கொடுத்தாள் தோழி,

அவற்றிர்க்கு உயிர் கொடுத்தாள் காதலி,

மொழியில் கூட தாய் மொழியே சிறந்தது,

ஆறுகள் கூட பெண்ணின் பெயர் கொண்டே சேவை புரிகிறது...

பெண்ணே, உனக்கு இதனை பரிணாமமா?

பெண் என்ற ஒருத்தி இல்லாமல் போய் இருந்தால்

மனிதர்கள் மனிதர்களாக இருந்திருக்க முடியுமோ?

-மகா 

புதுமை!!!

பெண்!!!

எத்தனை புதுமைகள்...

உன் புதுமைகளை விளக்க எத்தனை கவிதைகள்....

நீ நீயாக இருக்கும் வரை தீ கூட நீராகும் புதுமை...

நீ தீயாக பார்த்த பார்வையில் மதுரை தீ பற்றி எறிந்த கதை புதுமை...

உன் உரிமைக்காக போராடும் பொது நீ பேசும் பெண்ணியம் புதுமை...

பெண்ணியம் பேசும் அதே நேரம் நீ காக்கும் கண்ணியம் புதுமை...

விடை இல்லா பல விதிகளுக்கு, வீதி விலக்காய் விளங்கும் உன் வாழ்வு புதுமை...

இந்த கவி கொண்ட பதுமை,

இப்புவி கண்ட புதுமை...  

-மகா

எழுதுகிறேன்!!!

கவிஞன் நான் கண்ட பெண் பற்றி கவிதை ஒன்று எழுதுகிறேன்...

கவி உலகு பார்த்திராத கவி பொருள் என்று எண்ணி எழுதுகிறேன்...

அவளை பற்றி எழுத முனையும் பொது திகைக்கிறேன்...

அவளுக்கு இயற்கயை உவமிப்பதா,

இல்லை அவளை இயற்கைக்கு உவமிப்பதா என்று....

 

எழுதுகிறேன்!!!

இதென்ன??

வாழ்க்கையின் ஆயிரம் போராட்டங்களுக்கு நடுவில்  

மனதிற்கும் அறிவிற்கும் சிற்சில உவமை போராட்டமோ....

அல்லது விரலுக்கும் எழுத்தாணிக்கும் நடுவில் சில பல எழுத்து போராட்டமோ...

எழுதுகிறேன்...

இந்த கவிதையை வாசிக்கும் போது ,இந்த கவிதை மீது உங்களுக்கு காதல் வரும்....

இதனை உணரும் போது அந்த பெண் மீது காதல் வந்துவிடும்...

இதோ எழுதுகிறேன்....

சில்லென்று தூவிடும் மழை சாரல் உணர வேண்டுமா?

சிற்றின்ப நதியில் சிறு நேரம் திளைக்க வேண்டுமா?

சிலைமகள் அவள் சிரிப்பை ஒரு  முறை பாருங்கள்...

பெய்யென்று பெய்யும் மழை மேகத்தின் மேல் நின்று அதனை ரசிக்க ஆசையா?

கூவுகின்ற குயிலை கூவ சொல்லி மகிழ ஆசையா ?

குயில் மகள் மழலை பேச்சை தட்டி கழிக்காமல் கேளுங்கள்...

மனதிற்குள்ளே ஒரு நொடி சுக மின்சாரம் பாய வேண்டுமா??

வலி தராமல் உயிர் பறிக்கும் ஆயுதத்தை  காண  வேண்டுமா?

பென்னவள் கண்களை  ஒரு நொடி நேரில் பாருங்கள்...

பட்டாம்பூச்சி  சிறகடித்து  பறக்கும் அழகை ரசிப்பீர்களா ?

அப்படியானால் கண்மகள் கண் இமைகளின் அசைவுகளையும் ரசிப்பீர்கள்...

புதிதாய் மலர்த்து விரிந்த மலர் தனை பணி துளியோடு கண்டு திளைக்க ஆசையா...

 (இவள் உதடுகள் அதற்கு உவமை...)

ஆழ்கடல் ஆழம் அறிய முனையும் அறிஞரா நீங்கள்? 

இதோ நீங்கள் அறிந்து ஆராய ஒரு ஆழ்கடல் இருக்கிறது.. (அவள் மனம்)...

மந்திர தந்திரங்களில் நம்பிக்கை உண்டா?

நம்புங்கள்... அவள் விரல் கொண்டு தடவினால்

எந்த உடல் காயமும் ஆறி விடும்  அற்புதம்....  

அவள் கை கொண்டு தலை வருடி விட்டால் 

எந்த மன காயமும் ஆறி விடும் அற்புதம்...

மந்திர கோலோடு  பிறந்தவள் போலும்...

கருமை இரவில் நிலவு வீசும் குளிர்ச்சியை

அவள் கருமை நிறை கார்கூந்தல் வீசும்...  

பென்னவள் விடும் மூச்சு காற்றை 

கோப்பை ஒன்றில் சேமித்து வைத்தால் 

அது எளிதில் கிடைக்காத பொக்கிஷம் ஆகும்...

அவள் அடி பாதம் தடவி பாருங்கள்...

அதை விட மென்மையான பூ இதழ் ஒன்று 

உலகில் இருக்குமோ என வியப்பீர்...

சிக்கென்ற இடையும்,

சிங்கார நடையும் ,

இந்த சிங்காரிக்கு மட்டுமே வாய்த்தது…

உவமைகளுக்கு கூட பஞ்சம் வருகிறது இந்த பெண்ணை எழுதும் பொழுது...   

எழுதுகிறேன்...

அவளை எழுதுவதால் எனக்கு அவள் மீது காதல் என்று அர்த்த படுவதில்லை...

அழகை ரசிக்காத கவிஞன், கவிஞன் என போற்ற படுவதில்லை...  

எழுதுகிறேன்....

                                                -வெ.மகாதேவன்