A Self-Definable Life!!!

                                 And!!!! Here goes a post about the most discussed , most accepted and at the mean time most ignored topic of Centuries...  Yes ,Life it is...

                                   People who talk, write or advice about Life things usually use  "I-experienced-it-so-I-knew-it"  kinda tone... May be that's the reason most people who hear the LIFE conversations doesn't give a damn about it...  And in no way am going to use that tone now...  Let us have some cool and interesting facts about LIFE that I feel like sharing...

                                   I don't feel like giving you points to overcome fear, miseries, depression, lack of confidence etc in your lives... Because it has been long said that each and every one of us have our own problems in life...  A life without issues is like rose without thorns... There are many kinda flowers that is as colourful as Rose... As beautiful as Rose... Possess as good smell as Rose possesses... But the thorns on it's stem signifies it...Without problems life is not interesting and significant...

                                     Each and everyone of our lives are SELF-DEFINABLE... A writer me defines my life in my way of doing things, experiencing moments, having relationship with person to whom am talking or hanging around with... Like wise you might be a student, a scholar with any degree,be at any profession say for a professor,a doctor, an engineer or whatever... The way you define your life things is how it is going to work out ...

                         
                          For example again me being a writer,a reader etc , I love to sit under a tree all filled with small green leaves and colourful flowers(Yellow Flower in precise), in a place full of grass that extends unto my eye's view point in the late evening... Seeing that tree's leaves waving and blowing a thin breeze that touches my face when I was deep down into reading my favourite book  and immerse into thoughts of my fantasy world... I love the companion ship of the cuckoo bird... The environment would be filled with silence except the Cuckoo sound... That make me feel like am hearing a  symphony at best ever place and best ever environment in the world...  This kinda experience will help me refine my thoughts and improve my skill of  lively writing...   

                            My way of defining my happiness will of course be different from your's and others too...  Some one hates sitting in the grass... Some may get frustrated being alone... A psychologist may wants to be with people to observe them...  An engineer might have the attraction towards the amazing innovations around them... I mention Engineers and Doctors not to mean the job and salary associated with them... But the way of life for ,which most of them would like to get around...

                                Now being accepted that we all have separate dreams, hopes, different paths in life,  it make much sense if we don't compare our bad times with some one else's good times... The point now is to define a life for ourselves...

I feel the urge to clarify two things here...

1) There are possibilities that readers may understand the meaning of "SELF-DEFINED LIFE" as some kind of selfishness oriented one... That's not the case... I'll explain "How it is not" later...

2) A question that will probably arise in all of our mind is "Is it possible to define our own lives? Will it be reasonable? "

Here is the answer for both the issues...
                                      A self-defined life doesn't mean living a life without considering people around us... It means a life defined by us to live independent  of others... It means a life defined by us that gives us an Identity... A life defined by us that gives us the right to do things that we like... A life defined by us that makes us reasonable and wise.

        "Either write something that worth reading or
           Do  something that worth Writing...."

                                                                  -Benjamin Franklin  

                                 Human lives are obviously self-definable...  A cat's life is a good example for this... We once use to feed a cat which is white colour with black spots in our home which was wandering around our house often... As days passed the cat become more familiar and lovable to our family members... It knows the timing of our breakfast, lunch and dinner... It knows the sleeping time and wake up time of everyone in our house... It come inside the house after all had slept and leave the house before we wake up... Some days the Cat's "miaouv" sound is our wake  up alarm... 

Once the Cat yielded 3 kittens... As far as the safety is concerned, the cat itself brought those kittens inside our house and kept them at our store room's shelf where old stuff had been kept and we hardly clean that shelf (that too was known by this creaky freaky Cat)...  Even though we fed the cat for long time and even though it does have some sense that we will not harm those kittens, if any one get near the shelf to see the kittens it use start screaming at us in cat's language... It had never let us get near the kittens unless they grow up little bit... But after some 15 to 20 days we use to play with those cute and active kittens which was really a fun... You won't believe those... Those kittens play hide and seek among themselves , one hiding behind our dining table leg and other jump at it and find it... That mom cat didn't screamed any more... 

                                    The reason why am sharing this is that , whatever the hospitality we gave that cat, though it knows we fed it when it was hungry, even after we made it one of our family members, 
when it came to the safety of it's kittens, nothing worked out...  You can say it don't have common sense... But if it is so, it should have neither intended to protect it's kittens...

               Like the same, we humans can define our own lives in the way that nothing can stand in front of our Dreams, Hopes and Determination towards our lives... So yes, our "LIFE IS SELF DEFINABLE..."



Now, How can we define our LIFE as we like? 
                                 Remember one thing... The life we living now is the only life where we can be ourselves...  Life is meant to be lived... Living means not surviving... One sad thing that we all should accept is that, most of the people take Survival facts as the necessary thing to accomplish in life... We often hear most of our parents telling us to get a good job, build our own house, buy a car for our own, Protect their name in this society... It is so implausible to let our life get defined by the society... A society will criticise everything and everyone in the world... If someone decides to change their desires and dreams for the society and family, then that person can never achieve what he/she want to achieve...  
                               
                                  Set things upright... Never give up at anything you attended... Never lose hope on something you intended to do... Dream Big... Never change your dreams for others... Do things that help you refine your mind... Involve in activities that bring you out of the box and gives you an unique identity... Create an environment that will help you to accomplish your wish...
A SWAN use to sleep resting it's head on it's feathers while flying ,if the destination is too long... It don't use to get down and take rest...  So never rest unless you reach your destination... 
                                     
                                      "Go and fly... While the heat is high... Until you reach the sky... Never Give up unless you die..."               
                                         
I defined mine... Define your's...                
                                                                                                                                           -Maha