Take part!!!

                 Many times I ask my friends to take part in any events along with me... I use to think they would be longing to be a part in such events... Which I suggest based on their Individual interests that I got to observe on my best... Unfortunately they deny the suggestion often... I give them a strange look and let it go...

                 Now I want to analyse the reason for their denial and their state of mind which doesn't  let them be a part of these events...
             
                 The reasons they use to put forward when I question them are 1) Parents won't permit, 2) Can't travel so long, 3) Have to be back home on time, 4) Got some other work(which doesn't seem plausible in my view), 5) What am I going to do participating in that? 6) I don't think it will be useful for me, 6) I will try to be a part next time, 7) I don't think it's a good idea, 8) I got suspicions on the event management and I don't think I need to participate in that event to prove myself and the list goes on... The most funny ones are those when they ask me "Why you are taking part in that?"...

               These might be feasible reasons to convince me, but I don't think they actually got issues in accepting the suggestion... Don't think am pointing at their own decisions and making comments on others self right to live there life and do things... Am just putting my friends as an example for this kind of people... Its not only case of some people around me... Most people in today's life style have attitude of 'Live-at-safer-side-as-others-do'...

               They are finding reason from a nook of the buried world and throwing them as the reason for there disability... Here by saying 'disability', I didn't mean they are  unable to take part... They are unable to have a mind that keeps them ready to take part... This is Human's psych... If a person gets into an awful situation or a kind of situation where they need to put their efforts to accomplish that thing, they simply get satisfied by dragging something inevitable(which they think so) and use to stand apart from that  situation...

                 I think this is where people should practice the saying "Stop, Think and Go"... All of us need to come over this problem of finding reasons so that we can step into the next stage... They are also the important moments in one's life,for the fact that our activities define our characters... One can be portrayed as a hard working person only after he/she works hard... They just cannot start working hard only because their character was said to be a hard working type... A thief is not a thief before he steals for the first time... A sculpture is just a stone before it gets carved by an artist...A canvas is just a white paper before some one intend to make it a colourful art... Like wise one cannot become what they want to become before they are ready to commit themselves to do the things which eventually make them what they want... Every denial is the missing of great opportunity...

• What if Sachin had denied his first attempt to stand in the field? 
• What if Wright Brothers had got satisfied by their ability to jump against the gravity using their legs? 
• What if Steve Jobs had decided not to visit the manufacturing industries around his town which he might have thought as useless ones? 
• What if Einstien hadn't asked himself  'What if  we travel in light speed?'... Of course "Relativity theory" wouldn't had born... 

• What if , what if... there are lots of 'What ifs' for which the answers had made great histories... 

                Each and  every thing we do in our life time definitely will have impact on our lives itself... Remember that, missing an opportunity is also one of that 'Each and every things'...

                I view life as a maze game... There is a reason for this... In a maze game, we never know what behind each and every walls and every turns inside the Maze... Life also doesn't reveal anything unless you move forward... And one cliche point is that, our life starts at the centre of the maze... Whether or not you want to play it, you are already inside the game... There are two choices you can go for... One is you can reside inside a place and get satisfied for playing well the maze-game... Obviously no one knows in which piece of the game you are at and you also can't know at which piece of the maze others are at... Unless you start exploring the place... I can't say that you can get nurtured by the experiences, but I can assure that more you explore life, more you come to know you hadn't known many things... Which in turn can urge you to explore more...        

             Finally, I have never heard of some one saying their missed chances in their first life, making use of them in their second life or the life after which they are living now... As far as we know, we got only one life to dwell inside, make impact, go long and jump out of the sky if you wish... So make the living best... Never get stagnated at a single thing... Take a ride, get to the top of  a cliff and say to the world  "I am here to live my life to the fullest... So there are no more excuses and no more reconsiderations..." Take part in everything... Be a part of every smiles around you...  

                

Aftermath of Exams!!!

               It's been a while I posted... The exams do cause many changes in us... I love exams as much as I hate them... Yeah it's true... First of all I hate them because they are being used to judged a person's capacity... I love them because, exam times are the one at which my mind get equipped with more number of things to accomplish, except studying...  It's a common mania for most of us, that we tend to do any work during the exams that we might not even considered during other days... Funny but true...

             Whenever we feel a thing that we can find ourselves instantly that we are in that feel, just stop there and think of that feel... Analyse it... What is causing it?  What does it do? Is it a good feel or Is it good to feel? If so then how to bring the feel again and again whenever required?

             These questions which I always try to answer helps control our thoughts... It can help us create a strategy and follow them or gives a way to manage that strategy...  This is one of the simple way to understand our inner thoughts and act upon them...

              For example, there are many writers, artists, dancers, musicians etc who have the habit of making an art only at a particular place at particular environment... Some writers sit and write flawless sitting on the shore whereas some artists tend to draw only being in natural sceneries...  The reason is that they understand their inner thoughts which let them create art only when they feel being in their desired places... As a budding writers, artists or any kind of people who are making art, I hope it is an important and also effective thing to be followed.. (i.e)  Find a metaphor for your work... Use that and make art... I am on my way of finding my metaphor...

             Coming back to exams, a friend of mine said once that it helps prepare for exams efficiently if you involve in some curious activities before start studying... I wanted to reconsider this theory on my view... As I said before exams are the ones that is leading me to find some other curious things than studying...

             No one can compete a student's imagination boundaries when he/she is sitting in front of book at late night a day before the exam with a new topic to cover along with the deep sleep in eyes... We need to imagine something else to keep ourselves wakeup... That is the most beautiful time for powerful and effective thoughts to be born(sometimes crazier)...

             I am not here to blame the whole education system for made us have attitude like this about exams... Though I don't explicitly do that, many of us could think of the true reason for our overwhelming hatred for exams... Others not only define how good we are at studies, but also try to figure out capacity, talents, interests using this single exam results... If a student doesn't get high marks it doesn't mean he/she doesn't studied well or he/she is not capable of scoring marks...
These exams are also indirect reason for Our Messed up Minds!!!

             Once I got arrears in few papers... It is unexpected though... The time that I took to clear them is when I hated this marking system to the core... Especially the people who judged me through my marks... The funny fact is that even people who know me, have been seeing me for long time used to create a bad attitude on me and people around me started advising me to be careful in upcoming semesters...  At one point I felt like as if I had committed a murder...   I am not blaming them...  I also can't blame the system that transformed people to be so judgemental based on marks... Because system is a system... We got to follow them is what they gonna put forward... I am just blaming myself for being in such a scenario and ironically being sensitive to the ill effects of that scenario...

              "No matter how good you are at something, People will always point your disability..."   

Holidays in a view of Crazy guy
              After the exams comes the holidays... All viewing holidays as rest after a great stress produced by 4 months of semester and 1 month exam... But I couldn't view my holidays as a rest...
Instead I  thinking like 'Oh god... Holidays are nearing, I got to get prepared to do things... I need to get membership from Library, I need to finish reading unread books in my shelves, I got to volunteer for service activities, I have to do this, that bla bla ... I can't rush them at the last minute...' That's what dragging me... That's what pulling me up whenever I am down...

               After all we all have got our own way of viewing things and getting used to them... It doesn't matter in what way we view them... The matter is what does your view brought you?  Think of it...

               'Aftermath of Exams is a great opportunity for me to make bigger leaps and reach heights that I didn't reached so far...'